Facts on Sexual Assault
- 85% of sexual assault victims know their attacker.
- Victims do not provoke their own rapes. This is an excuse used by
rapists.
- Many survivors of sexual assault struggle with self blame, primarily
because they may have known their assailant. Many of these assaults happen
on a date or at other social situations where the victim may have been
drinking or using recreational drugs. This does not make the attack the
survivor's fault or responsibility. The rapist is always to blame for
rape.
- Date rape is not about miscommunication, mixed signals, or conflicting
messages. It is about people who disregard what they hear and see and
refuse to respect the feelings and boundaries of others.
- Sexual abuse is a highly self-centered act, and although some
offenders may try to convince their victims otherwise, sexual assault does
not occur by accident or impulse. Many rapists set out to inflict harm on
others. Some simply do not care how much they harm another person. They
use sex as a way to express hostility and anger, and as a way to act out
their desire for power and control.
- Many people believe that only women are raped, and that only men
commit rape. This is false. Studies indicate that between 5 and 7 percent
of all rapes are committed against men. This doesn't mean that male
victims feel only 5% of the pain female victims feel. Any man or boy who is
sexually assaulted deserves to be believed and supported in his recovery.
The number of male survivors may actually be much higher, since sexual
assaults with male victims are even more underreported than assaults with
female victims. The sexual assault laws in Illinois are gender-neutral;
this means that the law recognizes that sexual assault can be committed
by a man OR a woman, and it can be committed against a man OR a woman.
Sexual assault can be committed by a man against a man or by a woman
against a woman.
- It is no excuse under Illinois law that the victim of an assault was
the spouse of the offender. If someone forces another person to engage in
sexual activities against her or his will, that is rape. Marriage does not
give anyone the right to sex.
- It is illegal to have sex with someone who is unable to consent. Many
people think this only applies to unconscious people, but the truth is
that intoxication can make one unable to consent. It is never okay to have
sex with someone who is asleep or unconscious.
Rape Crisis Services Office
310 West Church Street Suite 103
Champaign, IL 61820
Phone: (217) 355-5214
Fax: (217) 355-5270
24-Hour Hotline: (217) 355-5203
rcsprogram@awomansfund.org
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